5 Key Flirting Tips For Men
Flirting Tips Excelent For Texting
Flirting is becoming more and more significant every year. Before the 19 th century, couples were betrothed (matched up) at early ages and there was no need for flirting. It wasn't until after the 19 th century that men and women started to step out of their community and traditions and it became their job to figure out their relationships. Around the 1950's, men and women started needing to have and develop basic flirting skills.
Around the 80's, it became clear that if you wanted to be successful with women you needed to have flirting skills. By the 20 th century, flirting had become the determining factor in a man's success with women. Now-a-days, if you want to be successful with women, you must be able to flirt in your texting, text messages, conversations and body language.
First, before we jump into the flirting tips, let me point out that if you are having poor success with women it doesn't have to be that way - it's just a lack of knowledge. Learning and applying the right flirting tips will have a huge impact on what women you attract into your life. I've seen it happen hundreds of times.
These flirting tips have been used in my coaching seminars and proven to bring results. The best thing to do is try new things until you find what works. Enjoy these flirting tips:
Flirting Tips #1 - Make Physical Contact
Women communicate through physical interactions way more than men and you must communicate with her physically to be successful. Just make sure that it is non-threatening by touching her hand, arm or back.
Once you have initiated the touch you need to be aware if she touches you back. If she does, that's a strong indicator that she feels safe around you and that you can keep progressing the interaction. If she doesn't, consider backing off.
Flirting Tips #2 - Leave on a high - get her laughing
The ending is the most important part in a conversation - just like it's the most important part in a speech. This is the final impression that sticks in her head.
For example, if you are going to meet her don't just say, "ya we will see you then, bye." Instead say something like, "yeah just try not to embarrass me." or "Don't forget to paint your toe nails." or "This is where you say you can't wait to see me and hope you can keep your hands to yourself." You will see women wanting to be with you more if you can end off conversations with her laughing.
Flirting Tips #3 - Remember to always qualify
Men seem to struggle with this. The goal is not to sell yourself, but instead take the position of being sold to. This is a much better position and it's the only way exceptional women are going to want you.
You can do this by asking question like, "that's a cool necklace did you get it traveling?" To keep it on the more flirty side you can do what is called roll reversal, "So are you going to ask me out or what?" or "You didn't just tell me you liked hiking to get me to like you, did you?" Whatever you do, realize that you have no idea of what that good looking girl has to offer, so don't treat her like she's a queen, it doesn't make sense.
Flirting Tips #4 - Props
Believe it or not, women want to flirt with men but have a hard time doing it. Having a prop makes it so much easier and inviting for them to come up to you. It also gives you something to talk about to break the ice.
You could use a bandana that hangs out of your pocket or a hat that stands out, a shirt that says something funny, etc. Then if a girl asks about your bandana you can say, "I don't think you can handle it." Then you can go into a made up story or just say "it's to match my shoes what do you think?"
Flirting Tips #5 - Flirt through texting
Being successful with women is becoming easier and easier for men. Why? Because communication through text messaging, emails, and SMS text messages has became such an integral part in everyday communication. This is a gold mine for men. It gives you time to compose the right message (which also improves your real world flirting). You can also interact with more than one woman at once to increase your chances and build your confidence. Most importantly, texting and text messages cut out all the attraction triggers that often times hurt your chances, such as clothes, smile, breath, hair, etc. All you're left with are words and timing.
Once you get the right words with the right timing, you can expect to have a ton of success with women. And since most men fail at flirting in texting, you will stand out above the rest and you'll see a lot of women responding desirably to you.
Tyler Tray is the author of "The Ulitmate Texting Guide for men" and has taught hundreds of men on how to be more successful with women.
P.S. Enjoy the free texting tips. Now, what I've noticed in the past few years of coaching men about texting is that most men really don't know how to utilize the power that texting can have on their success with women. Before going any further, you should really ask yourself these questions:
- Do you ever find yourself sending text messages that failed?
- Do you seem to spend way to much time trying to think of the right line to say?
- Do you seem to send messages that don't get the results you want?
If you have answered yes to any of these, don't feel alone. It's becuase most men text women like they are friends and it destroys the attraction.
The hard part is that this kind of texting is ingrained and it's very dificult to step outside of the box and see what really creates the attraction and sexual tension with the women you desire. The worst part is, most men will never see what kind of success they could have had.
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If you really want to see some drastic improvments in your success with women, you're going to need to step outside of your box and see what women really respond to. I gaurentee if you apply the Secrets found in The Ultimate Texting Guide, your success with women will double. In fact, if that doesn't happen in the next 60 days, I will refund every penny back to you with no questions asked. Just click the link and let's get started on texting some irresistible text messages...
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